Strap-on Jo

My intention is to help people to enhance their erotic lives in ways that are pleasurable, healthy, and emotionally safe. My approach is practical, sex-positive, tantric-friendly, kink-positive, empathic, and non-judgmental, with touch, breath, guided visualization, talks and live demonstrations.

You’ve found the right website if you want information about anal sex, pelvic release massage, prostate stimulation, fisting, vulvar and vaginal anatomy, “Strap-on Jo Takes It Like She Gives It” self-produced porn, pegging, shopping for sex toys, breathwork in a sexual and sensual context without some of the esoterica of Tantra, and erotic massage for partners.

I had a blast! You facilitated an environment where a group of strangers could talk about their qualms and desires regarding anal with comfort and ease. I know I felt that way, and the vibe was that the others felt that way, too. You answered questions I didn’t know I had.

Riley

Education Coordinator and workshop participant, Sexploratorium

My friend and I participated in your Chill the Fuck Out … With Your Ass class.  We had the most powerful experience ever with your help. Thank you so much for your guidance. … I am grateful for your classes this weekend, I took Anal 101 and the handjob class… All very informative and can’t wait to put it all into action.

-Carebear

Frolicon 2014 attendee

I was thrilled to see how many people attended.  Your passion for the topic was very evident and nicely shared.  Your excitement and enthusiasm really set a great tone for the workshop.  The variety of toys you brought was an excellent jumping off point for so many people.  You were able to talk well with your experience backing you up in terms of fucking asses and cunts and the ways different toys might feel and be used.  You were excellent at keeping the focus on how *you* did things and not on things MUST BE DONE OR ELSE. The no-judgmental, lots-of-room-for-individuals’-needs-and-imagination approach was spot on.  The hints for “low-impact” fucking were great; lots of our members are always looking for hints to accommodate their bad backs / creaky knees / weak wrists / etc.  It was cool to see certain positions tried and see the harness actually on you.  Visuals like that made the class more exciting.  You navigated pronouns beautifully and steered away from hetero-normativity and tired lesbian stereotypes really well, just perfect for our group.

Opn

Demo Coordinator, Mob New England

Call For Interviewees

I am obsessed with men’s asses, both on a professional basis and in my personal life. Over the years, I’ve talked informally to over a thousand men who have sex with women and/or identify as straight about their experiences, discussing their thoughts and feelings about receptive anal play. I love that so many men have shared their perspectives with me, but I wish more people could hear the diversity of their stories. It seems to be time to collect their stories in a more formal way, to create an anthropological-style study of men who have sex with women.

I am seeking men who are willing to share their experiences in an interview. Verbal interviews are preferred and will take around thirty minutes. The interviews are anonymous and will be transcribed for inclusion in an upcoming book.

Contact Jo To Be Interviewed