Your body can do seriously cool shit. And I love coaching people to access their full erotic capacity. Whether you are very familiar with or becoming aware of the potential of the mind-body connection in a sexual context, I would like to support you in your journey of discovery. I offer in-person sessions for individuals, people with their partners (couples, triads, quads, etc.), and small groups. These sessions are for those whose intention is to develop higher awareness of their anatomy, physiology and the various forms of pleasure that are available to them. Clients will acquire skills and learn to give and receive deeper pleasure. In these sessions, one-directional hands on methods may be used to facilitate the client’s learning around receiving touch, but the practitioner is not a sexual partner within this paradigm. If clients wish to develop their skill at giving touch, they are welcome to bring a partner. I also offer phone/video conference sessions, minus the bodywork, obviously. Sessions may cover any of the material included in my workshops and are tailored to the clients’ preferences and needs.

Talk / Breath

Coaching
$160/75 min
  • In-person or via video
  • Touch not included

Intensive

Day
$800/day
  • Up to 7 hours a day
  • Plus expenses when traveling

People With Asses

The anus is an often overlooked backdoor to personal growth. What do I mean by this? The anal sphincters and nerves near your tailbone are a direct access route to the autonomic nervous system (i.e. not controlled by your conscious mind).  Developing a greater awareness of how to access this powerful connection to your subconscious can therefore allow profound experiences. Many forms of bodywork address tension and emotions stored in various parts of the body but fail to include the anal area, despite it being a zone that retains tension connected to life’s emotional experiences. I create a safe environment to navigate the physical and emotional terrain between the cheeks.

People with Vulvas / Vaginas / Front Holes

(We can use whatever your preferred terminology is for referring to your genitals)

Wonder whether your front hole is “normal” or why certain types of stimulation don’t really do much for you or are painful? Concerned that your front hole doesn’t “get wet enough” or “gets too wet”? Want to learn all about your vulva / vagina and how your unique anatomical structure affect your personal pleasure and health?  I recommend reading and doing the self-explorations described in Sheri Winston’s “Women’s Anatomy of Arousal” to learn how to stimulate the legs of your clitoris, the role of your vestibular bulbs, where you have the highest concentration of para-urethral glands, how/where/when your uterus moves, the exact location of your urethral opening, that you have as much erectile tissue as a person with a penis does, and whether your perineal sponge or anterior fornix enjoy stimulation.

If you want a personal guided tour, I can provide one!

Mindful Masturbation Coaching

A powerful skill/practice for exploring your sexual mind-body connection is mindful masturbation, masturbation where you are fully present in your body. Joseph Kramer’s website OrgasmicYoga.com explains how to use intention, sexual stimulation, breath, and pelvic floor clenches to facilitate 20+ minutes of meditation and explore your body’s capacity for expanded pleasure beyond a quick wank. Although this sounds easy in theory, many people (including myself!) have encountered internal resistance to engaging in mindful masturbation on a regular basis (or at all!). I can support you in designing your own personal practice that is sustainable by helping you identify and work through the various blocks your mind may create.

If none of the above applies to you but we have an established relationship, please feel free to contact me.